Who says we can't have both ?
A bit of both of course, I make turkey or ham, even prime rib for new year sometimes, yams, sweetened of course, mashies, olives, green and black, 2 types of jello's, corn on the cob, biscuits, cranberry sauces, gravy, *homemade*, stuffing, also homemade, sometimes homemade bread, and more. Not to mention homemade pies. :D Mmmmm