hey,
Breakfast, like a full breakfast, will be usually, bread with cheese, deli meats, maralades. Cream cheese, and then on the side there might be cottage cheese, or if its just something quick, some cereal... It also differs by region, some people have Weisswurst and Brezeln for breakfast..
Lunch, a lot of times Germans don't eat at home, but when they do, it varies a lot from each person's preference... I usually have had for lunch, Italian styled pasta, mauttaschen (Swabian specialty) served either in a soup or pan cooked with other things, or some kind of sausage and bread. Again, you might not have some of the things I listed where you are going.
Dinner is for most. A lighter meal. The 'typical' dinner would be again, bread, meats, cheese, salad, and a variety of things in addition. But sometimes we grill, and have steak, sausages, and with bread, salad, ect.
Generally, traditional German food is mostly a variety of bread, then the meats are usually preserved, and cheese. Veggies come in salads or are boiled.
Cooking Italian style is pretty popular with people who don't like traditional German food that much. But its hard to tell how your hosts cook.
Now, the timetable for eating is a bit different than what you might be used to, we usually eat breakfast whenever we get up, so if its a workday. Pretty early, but on weekends, it gets a bit irregular, we don't "fruehstueck" until noon because everyone sleeps in, so there is no real mittagsessen. Dinner usually comes much later at about 8-9pm, which means there might be room for a snack outside in the late afternoon. So if you REALLY can't put up with your host's cooking, then maybe have something to eat beforehand and not have to eat too much and still not be hungry.
Typically though, as long as you try it, they probably won't be offended. Just try what you can, and even if it doesn't look all that great, try it! If you don't like it, well, hey we all have different tastes, right? There's not much to lose, and you might discover something you like!
